Your journey starts here
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Rebellious Guidance
🔥 Feeling lost in the wild world of modern relationships and dating? Let’s:
• Decode the mystery of what turns you on.
• Mastering the art of the safer sex conversation.
• Transforming you from shy to shining (I've got your back.)
• Helping you strut your authentic self, whether that's in leather, lace, or leopard print!
~~~INCLUDES~~~
* Love Rebel Intake Form
* 2hr Discovery Session
* Weekly 1hr sessions via Zoom or phone
* Accountability check-ins via text
* Resources and Guides along the way
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The Rebel Lover 8-Week Journey
THE PATH LESS TRAVELED DOESN'T HAVE TO BE WALKED ALONE
You've had the conversations. You've read the books. You're excited about the possibilities that opening your relationship could bring—the freedom, the growth, the adventures.
But the gap between theory and practice feels enormous.
* Where do you actually start?
* How do you navigate jealousy when it inevitably arises?
* What if you're not in a major city with established communities?
* How do you set boundaries that feel right for both of you?
* What happens when one partner moves faster than the other?
The truth? Opening a relationship isn't just about finding new connections—it's about rediscovering yourselves and each other in profound new ways.
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Immersive Retreat
EXCLUSIVE OPTION: THE SAN FRANCISCO IMMERSION WEEKEND
For those ready to put their new skills into practice and have a growcation of a weekend, our optional 4-day guided immersion in the San Francisco Bay Area offers:
* Expert-led tours of the city's renowned sex-positive spaces
* Curated educational experiences with community leaders
* Carefully selected social events with supportive facilitation
* Personalized guidance for navigating new environments
* Integration practices to process and celebrate your experiences
This isn't just tourism—it's a transformative experience with a crew that bridges theory and practice under expert guidance.
Limited to 12 humans per immersion weekend
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Friction to Freedom
🫣 Explore the intricate landscape of defense mechanisms, the dynamics of blame and shame, and the impact of faulty core beliefs. By delving into these concepts, you'll unlock a deeper understanding of yourself and those around you. This journey will pave the way for enhanced empathy, honest communication, healthy boundaries, active listening, and genuine intimacy in your relationships.
If you need a conflict resolution solution for just you or a mediation between you and someone you care about, I'm here.
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1:1 Friction Coaching
* 2 hr Discovery Session
* 4 sessions exploring empathy, honesty, and rollplaying to become clearer within yourself and have new skills to talk to others.
Conflict Resolution also available:
my Tools for your success.
Harnessing the gifts of neurodivergence
Developing brain hygiene
Radical self-care through better boundaries
Leaning into leadership and public speaking
Self-made entrepreneur in an unusual industry
Meditation, self awareness, and mindfulness
Accepting love addiction, codependence, and unbound empathy
Communication training & conflict resolution
Integrative internal parts work
Being single not alone
Navigating modern relationships and nonmonogamy
Owning my sexuality and sexiness
Healing attachment & abandonment wounds
Leveraging dating for self awareness
Wild Explorations: festivals, medicine journeys, big moves, adventurous travel
Classes
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Sexual Adulting 101
Sexual Adulting 101 is a deep dive women's group to learn all you need in order to handle your new or hiccuping dating life like a boss. This 7 week class will have you acknowledge your herstory, explore your attachment style, learn about communication, get clear on your sexual boundaries and safer sex practices, get new sexual skills, and reconciliation and forgiveness.
Happens twice a year.
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From premature attachment to SlutSecure
Find yourself falling in love too fast?
Reid Mihalko and I have just the solution.
6 week virtual course, Reid & I do an annual in-person coaching class - go to the website for dates.
I/we also teach a 1.5 hour teaser class (DMs open for requests!)
Student Testimonial» “Bottom line, THANK YOU. Both you and Misha have developed a really incredible, eye opening course here and I am really excited to integrate this course into my life, my brain, my relationships and transform how I relate to the world.“
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Being Party Ready
Want to dip your toe into festivals or the consent forward play party scene but it feels completely intimidating? I have over a decade of experience to help you on your path.
Learn easy ways to break the ice, how to be transparent about your dating life, figure out your risk tolerance and what's important to disclose, as well as tons of other tips.
1 to 3 hour class (DMs open for requests)
GlowUps
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Pussy Waffles Coffee
Pussy Waffles Coffee is a truly delicious dance party for femme centered whimsical activism, radical pleasure & collective creativity. We dance, we serve pussy shaped waffles, and we make wishes into the pussy portal. Join me, your Waffle Daddy, on my very own Joy Project. You can follow along with our shenanigans and join the growing Illuminaughty.
PWC is available for hire to enhance and surprise your party. This is a full experience and requires a DJ that will play bootie thumpin music. This is not just someone serving waffles, this is a whole experience.
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Garden of Delights
Receive the seeds of possibility to widen your spectrum of playful activities.
We start with a heart opening session to allow for judgements to drop away and us to find openness and connection with our fellow gardeners.
Then we explore all the ways you can play with sensation from the lightest of tickles to a big thud.
This is a perfect addition to any sensual event to prime your audience and make the evening flow.
Community & Events
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Bonobo Network
Bonobo Network is a community rooted in real-world and virtual events where people learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships.
Apply now and join our community to get all the "friends with benefits" of being a Bonobo!
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Glow: Slow.sensual.small
With limited ticket sales, a warm home environment, pants-on boundaries, and a connection based opening circle you will get the experience you’ve needed to meet others in the community, feel more confident in your consent skills, and connect with others in a sensual environment. Glow is a Bonobo member event.
Offerings
Sexy bestie at your service.
Sexy bestie at your service.