My magic + your magic = big magic
I’m happy to present at your event, bring Pussy Waffles Coffee magic to your party, or chat with you on your podcast. Let’s collaborate!
My
Offerings
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1:1 Coaching - 3 & 6 month commitments.
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8 week online course
4 day SF Sex+ weekend
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PLAY WITH A PURPOSE
dare. dance. thrive!SoulPlay is an invitation to explore your essence.
Welcome to our magic-making playground of heart-expanding gatherings!
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Bonobo Network is a community rooted in real-world and virtual events where people learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships.
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All relationships come to a point when tensions arise. How you handle these tensions determines the quality of your life.
The PWC Experience
Pussy Waffles Coffee is a truly delicious dance party for femme centered whimsical activism, radical pleasure & collective creativity. We dance, we serve pussy shaped waffles, and we make wishes into the pussy portal. Brought to you by Misha Bonaventura (aka Waffle Daddy, CEO & One Job). You can follow along with our shenanigans and join the growing Illuminaughty by clicking this link: linktr.ee/pussywafflescoffee
SlutSecure
I can offer a teaser class to my popular online course with Reid Mihalko, From Premature Attachment to SlutSecure.
This class is a fun take on secure dating helping people to acknowledge the 4 aspects of their lives that are important for someone to fit well whether you want a one night stand, a friend with benefits, or a long standing love. Let me help your people find the connection they truly desire.
Looking for something else? I’m flexible. Just reach out.
Being Party Ready
This class is great for festivals or prepping for festival season.
Being Party Ready is a practical guide to asking oneself and your partner(s) about how you want to be, what you want to explore, and what is important to each of you before heading off to a big event.
This class supports the edges between freedom and safety so no one gets blown out at the party!
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My Bios
Short bio
From condom stores to cabaret shows, from research to ruckus, Misha loves to be in sex positive spaces of all kinds. Through creating new cultures of relating, Misha believes that we can shift from our current extractive, objectifying, lonely relational paradigm to a more abundant, reciprocal, and collaborative relational field.
long bio
From condom stores to cabaret shows, from research to ruckus, Misha loves to be in sex positive spaces of all kinds.
Starting in the mid-90’s Misha's career has spanned working at a condom store, to interviewing gay men for the largest national study on HIV/AIDS, to co-producing What is Erotic?, a cabaret-style theater show, while working for Dr. Rachel Abrams, the author of The Multi-Orgasmic Woman. Since studying sociology at George Washington University, Misha has always been drawn to the subjects of culture change, relationships, and sex, but it wasn’t until she stumbled into the sex positive community of the Bay Area after a giant squid expert broke her heart that she ended up taking a deep dive into deconstructing her beliefs around relating through her personal explorations of non-monogamy and sex parties. These adventures captured her attention as personal growth catalysts and she dedicated her career to creating spaces for others to experience the magic of new social paradigms around dating and sex. Through creating new cultures of relating, Misha believes that we can shift from our current extractive, objectifying, lonely paradigm to a more abundant, reciprocal, and collaborative relational field.
Misha is known for co-authoring Bonobo Network’s Consent & Accountability Policy that paved the way for a new baseline of accountability in sex positive spaces.
From 2017-2024 she co-produced Bonobo Network with William Winters, a 2000 person and growing community of people where pleasure seekers can learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships. Since 2012, she has offered conflict resolution coaching and mediation through Clearing Conversations. She’s worked with sex culture revolutionaries like Dossie Easton, author of The Ethical Slut & supported the creation of Navigating Consent, she teaches regularly with Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, assisted Polly Superstar, founder of Kinky Salon and author of Sex Culture Revolutionary with the PR for her book, and co-produced a hot spring trip with musical genius Rachel Lark.
You can also find her making pussy waffles and slinging coffee at her most recently inspired pop-up called Pussy Waffles Coffee.